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Are you sick & tired of looking for love in all of the wrong places ?
BODYTRADERS
Find True & Lasting Love Today
A book about letting go of the old & unworkable ways to go about relationships & replacing it with time proven ways that do work.
Hello, my name is Bruce Starr, way back in 1993, on AOL I opened a room called “RelationshipCoaching” under the title of the LuvCoach. During that time, I had over 6,000 conversations helping people with their relationships problems. From those lessons learnt over those years and up until today, I decided to do something with the lessons from those years and wrote a book called "BODYTRADERS".
In this book I would like to share with you what amounts to over 20 years of dedicated work on my part in just 121 pages for you to learn from. You will learn what is Bodytrading, who are Bodytraders and what stimulates Bodytraders to act the way they do and the secrets to avoiding falling for them.
Why do people fall for a Bodytrader? If you feel insecure about yourself because of past rejections, bad relationships and disappointments, your ability to love and be loved is diminished. As a result, you find that you are no longer driven to find true love. At this point you give up on finding you true love and look for a substitute. That substitute that many turn to who want to remain social are “hooking up” and Bodytrading.
You replace your desire for true love by finding new and unnatural ways to satisfy your need to to bond socially. Often you find yourself seeking out challenges instead of finding a loving relationship. When you do this, you become a Bodytrader!
There are no good guys or bad guys in Bodytrading. As a Bodytrader you have a plan in mind for the other person. You may be offering a fantasy trip of a lifetime or accepting an invitation on board the love boat to satisfy a desire you both have. Wanting someone to settle down and marry is no more or less a manipulation of another as getting the other person on that love boat to have sex.
In this book you will quickly learn how to recognize the Bodytraders from the lovers. One way to recognize a Bodytrader is by their anger, cynicism or pessimism. Bodytraders are afraid of making the same mistakes over and over again. When it comes to relationships, they don’t trust themselves or others. They would rather blame others for the state of their love life than learn from their mistakes. They don't believe they're able to sustain a loving relationship. Their memory of trying this in the past has left an everlasting emotional scar.
- You will learn how a Bodytrader approaches life and what signs to look out for to avoid them. People turned on by challenges want to conquer and win. If they need to win, that must mean that others must lose. They are most concerned about their own feelings and welfare. The Bodytraders are not playing to “win-win,” they are trying to satisfying their own needs and want to search for the most attractive, successful, sexy body to fill those needs. In going about finding relationships in this way, they are looking for the answers to their emptiness where love cannot be found.
- Learn why Bodytraders are out to get what they can from you. They are intrigued by the challenge of seeing how long it will take to win you over! Bodytraders want to be seen as terrific and exciting people. They know they have worked hard to develop the type of social skills that will attract others. They are excited by each and every potential conquest.
- Understand why Bodytraders are attracted to you and why they change AFTER you fall in love. Many times, Bodytraders are attracted to difficult, indifferent or unusual people. They don't become interested or focus their attention on one person until their "lines or moves" are rejected or ignored. Why is it they don't seem to notice another person until they are given "the run around" or a "hard time?"
- Learn why once you proclaim your love to a Bodytrader, they may even get angry because they feel the other has changed the "game." The person they had pursued to get attention and affection no longer offers resistance. Since they were looking for challenges and not for love when they were in pursuit, they see the fun part of the relationship as being over. Without the game and challenges, they become bored or confused about what to do next. It is just as possible that are afraid of love and will run from the possibility. After the break-up, you are left wondering what you did wrong?
- When sex is introduced into the relationship too quickly, you don't leave enough time to develop real feelings. Instead, Bodytraders mistakenly believe this person couldn't possibly be "the one" and move on with their search or to another conquest.
Bodytraders believe they are smarter than you. They never see themselves as the same or equal. They want to stand apart from the crowd and be seen as special. They do this by a show of material possessions, physical appearance, power or sexuality. What Bodytraders don't realize is these very same tactics build barriers between themselves and the very people with whom they want to have closeness and intimacy.
After a relationship break-up, you have a choice. You could harden your heart even further or you could thank those people in your own mind for opening up your heart again. You can see all people as teachers to help you learn right from romantic wrong.
Transforming From Trader to Lovers
Putting an Ending to the Games
Do you want to play games with yourself and others forever? You will understand why it is nearly impossible to have a loving relationship between two Bodytraders? When you see what contributions you make to the failure of the relationship, you realize it cannot always be the others persons fault as to why it did not work. The ability to enter into a better relationship begins the moment you truly desire it.
What is the best way to proceed if you are apprehensive about being with someone new and fear the possibility of being hurt or rejected? Know what to say and when to say it, when to share your thoughts or feelings, your past or the future, what you expect in the future...too soon into the relationship. Let your thoughts and feelings come out slowly and naturally. Spilling your guts is as unattractive as it sounds.
When two mature adults come together for the right reasons, a true interest develops in each other as people. You will get a feeling from the heart of trust, caring and equality. This will create a lasting and fulfilling bond between you and your partner.
Bonus eBook - Learning to trust again
When we are so attracted to someone or need someone so badly to be in our lives, we are willing to overlook obvious negative character traits that eventually come back and hurt us. As a result, we make wrong choices and choose the wrong people for wrong reasons.
Trusting and having trust for others is a true indication of the degree of our emotional health. The more bad decisions we made in the past, the harder it will be to now trust ourselves and others. We make bad decisions when we base our decision making process on anything but love. That means, when we enter into relationships coming from our fears or scarcity, we are basing our choices on very fragile and limited information that cannot lead to good and rewarding relationships.
When we don't trust others or ourselves when it comes to relationships, we make the wrong choices for the wrong reasons. In this book the LuvCoach gives real examples that will help you move past distrust. After finishing with his four step plan, you will be able to start to trust again from a secure and knowledgeable place - 21 Pages.
Trusting and having trust for others is a true indication of the degree of our emotional health. The more bad decisions we made in the past, the harder it will be to now trust ourselves and others. We make bad decisions when we base our decision making process on anything but love. That means, when we enter into relationships coming from our fears or scarcity, we are basing our choices on very fragile and limited information that cannot lead to good and rewarding relationships.
When we don't trust others or ourselves when it comes to relationships, we make the wrong choices for the wrong reasons. In this book the LuvCoach gives real examples that will help you move past distrust. After finishing with his four step plan, you will be able to start to trust again from a secure and knowledgeable place - 21 Pages.
Love just is. It cannot be forced or pushed. It is not about how much you give or how much is given to you. It is about choosing someone who has lovable qualities who feels good enough about themselves to love you back in return."
If you are looking for true and lasting love, and want to be able to venture out, and take that chance on love and life again with confidence or if you have been hurt once to often, BodyTraders is the book for you. - 121 Pages.
"You must be loveable first, If you want to feel more lovable and have more love in your life, once you feel more of it for yourself, you will then be able to offer it first to someone Else. The key will then be to offer it to someone will be receptive to it.
Bruce Starr - The Original LuvCoach
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In this oh-so complicated world of relationships, Bruce Starr (the LuvCoach) has used his many years of professional relationship coaching, to help people everywhere see through their self-sabotaging behaviors and ultimately how to get through to the other side, where healthy long lasting love is waiting. (Original Review reposted under permission by admin)
Patrice Karst
Author of God Made Easy, The Single Mother's Survival Guide and The Invisible String
Author of God Made Easy, The Single Mother's Survival Guide and The Invisible String
Bruce, I've been reading your manuscript. I think you are doing a fine job with it. (Original Review reposted under permission by admin)
Father Joe Girzone
The Joshua books
The Joshua books
This ebook is truly inspirational and should benefits all lovers in this world. The case studies presented in this ebook are real problems facing by each one of us. Everyone who reads this book should not afraid to start another love relationship (if they don't have any) but please apply the golden tips presented here such as not pursuing unavailable people. I am a lover of all things romance, but I don't always LOVE a book. This is one of those reads that I didn't want to put down, not even to eat! It was fun and exciting and this is not a typical motivational romance. (Original email review saved to file here and reposted under permission by admin)
Regards,
Hafiz
Regards,
Hafiz
Hi Bruce, I just read your entire book this evening. Very interesting, totally excellent job. Your book would be even more terrific in hard copy. Very powerful material. I can see you on book signings at Barnes and Noble, etc.... and on radio and lecture series about the book. This broad base publicity would lend credibility to the week long long retreats. (Original email review saved to file here and re posted under permission by admin)
Sher Luxenburg
Sher Luxenburg
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